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August 17, 2018

Celebrating Ten Years!

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Celebrating Ten Years!

Ten years ago today I saw my first counseling client at a training clinic in San Francisco. I was nervous. I worried she would ask me how many clients I had seen and I would have to admit she was my first one. Our 50 minute session seemed impossibly long. But she didn’t ask, and […]

August 9, 2018

Resources on Jealousy

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Resources on Jealousy

I think we can agree I was a strange kid. I have had a fascination with jealousy since a young age. When I was eight years old I had a book of Protestant sermons on the seven deadly sins, which I dog eared and underlined, particularly the one regarding envy (jealousy’s equally challenging cousin.) I […]

June 11, 2018

“ASSETS” Documentary

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"ASSETS" Documentary

Why do women love butts? Watch this five minute short documentary film project featuring yours truly (my name is spelled wrong – but you’ll recognize me!) Director Gustavo Rendon of the Colorado University Film & Television department explores the age old question of why heterosexual women are attracted to male gluts. A hilarious break for […]

May 31, 2018

Cannabis VS Alcohol

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Cannabis VS Alcohol

Petar Petrov of Extraction magazine examines how cannabis and alcohol effect men differently when approaching women. He asks for my feedback as a sex therapist on how cannibis impacts sexual encounters. Excerpt from my contribution: “Weed has the potential to be a reflective experience and slow down interactions, potentially allowing a partner who tends to […]

May 15, 2018

How does individual therapy catalyze change?

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How does individual therapy catalyze change?

If you’ve never been in therapy, speaking to a therapist in order to create the life you want may seem like a mysterious process. Even if you have attended therapy before and experienced a positive shift, the mechanism by which change was manifested may still seem a mystery. The journey of therapy is unique, the […]

April 20, 2018

Best Mattress for Sex

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Best Mattress for Sex

Insider Living asks 39 sex therapists to weigh in on how to find the best mattress for fabulous sex! Yours truly is first on the list, so check out this link for helpful tips when you buy your next bed: Insider Living: Best Mattress for Sex

March 16, 2018

Try Something New…

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Try Something New...

The tired old trope that a couple should “spice up their sex life,” comes from a very real and common issue: partners that have been together for awhile know each other well. Too well. Their sexual script gets increasingly efficient, knowing exactly what swirl or lick does the trick, and after 237 times exactly like […]

February 13, 2018

Family Affairs: Valentine’s Day Special

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Family Affairs: Valentine's Day Special

Whether you celebrate Valentine’s Day with romantic glee or choose to ignore February’s syrupy sweet holiday altogether, this podcast is for you! Join myself with host Ben Robbins and therapists Matt LeBauer and Lisa Thomas as we discuss how such a couple-centric holiday came to be and how best to enjoy it regardless of your […]

January 31, 2018

Sex Therapists on Deleting Tinder

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Sex Therapists on Deleting Tinder

Lindsey Kline of Rooster magazine asks for sex therapists’ perspectives on the world of online dating. Overwhelmingly, the professional responses she gets recommend searching for love in the real world instead of an app. To read more, including input from yours truly, click here.

January 13, 2018

Weed: A Good Foundation for Relationships?

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Weed: A Good Foundation for Relationships?

Mutual interests and shared hobbies are helpful when building a budding relationship. But do the vices we indulge in connect us or degrade our bonds? Petar Petrov of Rooster magazine explores this question and consults Indigo on the answer. Read more here.

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