Dry Humping

She’s Single Magazine asks Is Dry Humping Better Than Sex?

Dry humping—or “outercourse”—has always been considered a childlike stepping stone of sexual exploration; something that you grow out of once you transition from adolescence into adulthood. Yet researchers believe that dry humping can not only be used in our current sex life, but it might be more stimulating than the act of sex itself.

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Surprisingly, dry humping can sometimes feel more satisfying than intercourse, particularly for women. Sex therapist Indigo Stray Conger has helped couples in this area for over 13 years. She states that women who incorporate dry humping into their sex life have more pleasurable experiences. “Dry humping is a great friction builder, especially for the clitoris, which often doesn't get enough stimulation for climax during intercourse,” she says. “It also aids in other factors. Say when one or more partners has a yeast infection or UTI and has been instructed not to engage in sexual activity, dry humping is usually an acceptable alternative to intercourse.” Having intercourse isn’t the only way to be intimate with your partner.

Now this concept of dry humping in our dating life may seem exciting and great for people who are dating. However, when it comes to couples who have been with one another for a long time, can dry humping add some spice back into the relationship? The answer to that is, yes! This is true especially if you don’t feel as sexy as you use to. “Insecurities about your body can sometimes inhibit libido or ability to orgasm,” says Conger, which can increase in long-term relationships. Once the romance is fading and it now requires work, couples often feel like there might be something wrong. Dry humping can bring a new sense of excitement to your relationship. It can be used as foreplay or a tease to enhance the sexual urge you may miss.