What Not to Do in Bed

Kiki Wellington of Medium quotes me in 5 Traits of a Bad Sex Partner.

Excerpt below:

“Lovers, especially men, often mistakenly think that the secret to being a good sex partner is to focus on their partner’s orgasm and to have clever techniques with which to demonstrate their skills. That’s why a guy armed with the knowledge of sex-help books who doggedly goes down on a woman for 45 minutes is not likely to leave a positive impression,” said licensed relationship and sex therapist Indigo Stray Conger, Co-Founder of Mile High Psychotherapy and writer for Choosing Therapy. “Most people, especially women, would rather experience a give-and-take in the bedroom that is less goal-oriented and orgasm focused and more pleasure and connection focused.”