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The Allure of a Uniform

What makes uniforms so sexy? Find out what myself and other sexperts say in these TWO Medium articles for Veteran’s Day.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerNovember 11, 2020uniform, sexy, attraction, gay

What Not to Do in Bed

Kiki Wellington of Medium quotes me in her article about what to avoid doing in bed.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerOctober 28, 2020sex, technique, lover, style, traits, bad partner

The Psychology of Halloween

Medium spotlights my opinion in TWO articles on the psychology behind Halloween costumes.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerOctober 20, 2020halloween, sexy, psychology, costumes

Relationships & Finances

Money Geek published my expert tips on how to have financial conversations and make money decisions with your partner.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerOctober 16, 2020money, finances, marriage, couples, debt, therapy, couples therapy, advisor, money tips

How to Survive & Thrive After Divorce

Feature piece by Ilyssa Panitz in Authority Magazine about my extensive work with clients in various stages of divorce.

Signs of Divorce

Divorce attorney Laura Wasser asks myself and other professionals about the warning signs of divorce.

Intro to Rough Sex

Olivia Harvey of O.School consults sexperts, including myself, about trying rough sex safely.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerSeptember 21, 2020rough, bdsm, spank, couple, couples therapy, intro, 101, rough play

Sliding into the DMs

Is direct messaging a stranger or acquaintance a good idea? Bobby Box of AskMen explores this popular way to flirt and I weigh in with my opinion.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerSeptember 19, 2020dating, relationships, social media, therapy, men, private message, DM

Unequal Division of Labor

Alexis Berger of Well+Good consults with me about an unequal burden of emotional labor in her relationship.

Best Sex Toys

Self media included my recommendations on two separate lists from sexperts about what toys are worthwhile.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerAugust 24, 2020sex, vibrator, masturbate, toy, technology, self pleasure, couples, sensation

Anxious Attachment Style

Danielle Page of AskMen consults experts, including myself, on what anxious attachment style means and how you can deal with it.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerAugust 17, 2020attachment, anxiety, dating, relationship, insecurity, men

What Exactly Are The Five Love Languages?

Sarah Fielding of Women’s Health explores the Five Love Languages by consulting with relationship experts, including myself.

When Conceiving is Complicated

Sarah Prager at Healthline consults experts (including myself) on how trying to get pregnant can shift sex and intimacy.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerJuly 6, 2020infertility, sex, sex therapy, conceiving, intimacy

What is a Coregasm?

Gabrielle Kassel at Livestrong.com consults experts, including myself, on what a coregasm is and when it can happen.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerJuly 2, 2020sex, orgasm, sex therapy, exercise

Stay Motivated and Productive

Motivational speaker Dan Lok consults experts, including myself, in his article on How To Motivate Yourself To Be More Productive When You’re Alone.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerMay 12, 2020motivate, productivity, isolation, COVID-19

The Physiological Effects of Daily Yoga

Cat Lafuente of The List enumerates the many health benefits of practicing yoga, citing scientific studies and asking experts (including myself) to weigh in.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerMay 7, 2020yoga, health, anxiety, stress

What Are The Benefits of Yoga?

Forty yoga practitioners in Outwit Trade explain how yoga has enriched their lives, including self awareness, stress relief, pain management, and alleviating anxiety. Read my contribution here.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerApril 30, 2020yoga, mindfulness

Choosing Therapy

I am excited to announce my position as a staff writer for a brand new, just launched site called Choosing Therapy.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerApril 29, 2020sex therapy, counseling, teltherapy, desire disorders

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