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Dirty Talk

Tabby Kibugi at Get Me Giddy asks me and other sexperts about how to navigate talking dirty.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerJuly 18, 2022sex, dirty talk, sex therapy, libido

Best Oral Sex Toys

Self consults sexperts, including myself, on the Best Oral Sex Toys for People Who Crave More Tongue.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerMay 16, 2022toy, oral, oral sex, sex toy, best sex toy, tongue

Financial Therapy

Money Geek consults me about how financial therapy can create lasting change.

Safer LGBTQ+ Sex

Flo asked myself and other sexperts to share their tips for a safer, more satisfying sex life and a healthier queer community.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerJanuary 6, 2022LGBTQ+, safe sex, STIs, pleasure, queer

What Is an Open Relationship?

Check out my most recent ChoosingTherapy.com article about Open Relationships, including what they are and if you’re ready for one.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerDecember 14, 2021CNM, polyamory, open relationship, cheating, alternative

Be a Better Lover

Insider and The Chive both ask me and other sexperts about ways to ramp up your bedroom skills.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerDecember 10, 2021lover, sex, technique, toys, health, relationship, connection, sexuality

FWB & NSA Relationships

Heather Bien at The Knot interviews me for two articles about No Strings Attached Relationships and Friends With Benefits Relationships.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerNovember 26, 2021friends with benefits, fwb, no strings attached, nsa, fuck buddies, casual sex

Ultimate Guide to Polyamory

Check out my most recent ChoosingTherapy.com article Polyamory: What It Is, Types, & How It Works.

Debt's Impact on Mental Health

Sara Gillberg of Money Geek asks me to weigh in on how debt and financial stress affects your mental health and ways to cope.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerNovember 5, 2021debt, finances, depression, anxiety, stress, money, money tips

Abrosexuality

Journalist Stephanie Barnes asks myself and Dr. Carol Queen about what the term “abrosexual” means in her latest MindBodyGreen article.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerOctober 11, 2021sexuality, sexual identity, abrosexual, sex, communication, labels

9 Must-Read Sex Books

Kay Johnson of Let’s Get Kinky offers a list of the 9 best books on sex recommended by sexperts like myself.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerSeptember 28, 2021books, sex, sexual dysfunction, list, sexpert

Rekindling Sexless Relationships

Fatherly asks me and other sexperts how to rebuild intimacy in sexless relationships.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerSeptember 24, 2021LOW LIBIDO, sexless marriage, young kids

How To Last Longer In Bed

The Enhanced Male asks 50 sexperts how men can last longer during sex to improve the experience for themselves and their partner(s).

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerSeptember 16, 2021sex, PE, premature, last longer, performance, anxiety, orgasm control

Safer Sex as Self-Care

Journalist Morgan Mandriota at Psych Central explores how safer sex can be a form of self-care with myself and Dr. Sara C. Flowers from Planned Parenthood.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerAugust 27, 2021safe sex, phone sex, anxiety, COVID, pandemic, self-care

Talking About Vaginismus

Vaginismus can be hard to talk about with a partner. Get Me Giddy asks me how.

Compulsive Masturbation

Get Me Giddy consults me about how the stress and solitude of COVID-19 changed the way our brains connect with our libidos.

Blue Balls

Next Luxury asks me and other experts if “blue balls” are a real thing and, if they are, is guilt tripping a partner for sex appropriate?

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerAugust 3, 2021blue balls, frustration, sex, communication, sex therapy

Anticipation & Better Sex

The Girlfriend explores how to “get the butterflies back” in a long term relationship and asks for my thoughts.

PublicationsIndigo Stray CongerJuly 28, 2021sex, flirt, ERE, long term relationship, libido, sexy

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